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How To Have Women Chasing You – Vancouver Seduction

Posted on April 21, 2010 by Stefan

how to have women chasing youWant to have women chasing and pursuing you?

Are you tired of putting in constant time, effort and energy into meeting and attracting women?

Over the last 6 years, I’ve studied and researched what makes certain men successful with women and dating.  These men are what I consider to be “naturals with women” and often have women chasing and pursuing them.

A few years ago, I concluded that there are certain qualities that these “naturals with women” have that others don’t.

To explain it as clearly as possible, let me first introduce a concept to you what I describe as BEING vs. DOING.

You see, what I realized is that every man that begins this journey to become successful with women and dating goes through a certain EVOLUTION.

The first level a guy goes through is wanting to learn what to DO to attract women.  Most men want to know what to say, what are the best pick up lines, what to do to get a woman to like him, and essentially all the tricks or tactics to get women.

This is what I refer to as DOING.

Every guy goes through this, whether they know it or not.

I went through it for years and every guy I know has.

In this DOING phase, you begin going out there and meeting women.  You start out pursuing and chasing women.  You may end up approaching hundreds or even thousands of women, getting tons of phone numbers, getting dates here and there, and may even get into a nice relationship.

Through this DOING process, you notice massive growth and changes in yourself.  You gain more confidence, become a way better conversationalist, become more witty and fun, and people around you begin noticing how much you’ve changed.  It’s really cool to experience this.

But, eventually you get to a point where you realize to keep this up requires constant effort, time and energy.   While you’re now capable of meeting and attracting women and getting dates, it still requires tons of WORK.  You’re the one chasing women and pursuing them constantly.

At this point, you come to the realization that in order to have women chase and pursue you, you need to change your focus to BEING.

The BEING phase is when instead of focusing on what to “DO” to attract women, you’re focused on how you can BE naturally attractive to all women.  Instead of focusing on the lines, tricks or gimmicks – you’re focused on WHO YOU ARE.  You begin focusing on BEING more confident, BEING a better conversationalist, BEING a man, and BEING attractive to women.

You improve who you are at the core.  You realize that it’s all about INNER GAME – your beliefs, values, identity and how you carry yourself that makes you attractive.  You begin building an incredible lifestyle and find your true purpose in life and live it every single day.  You stop needing approval or validation from women, because you’re already so abundant and happy with yourself that you don’t need a woman to “complete you”.  You’re so filled up with positivity and energy that people are naturally drawn to you and they want to experience your presence.

At this point, it doesn’t require much effort to attract women.  Meeting women becomes easy and natural, because you’ve put so much work into yourself that you naturally start conversations with people everywhere you go.  Women are attracted to you just by being near you, as they immediately notice something different about you.  They can feel your presence and energy.  It’s contagious.  It’s infectous.

In this BEING phase, you notice women begin showing more interest in you.  They may begin asking for your phone number or texting you all the time or calling you.  They want to hang out with you and be around your energy.  They can feel your masculine power and strength.  They feel safe around you and will begin fantasizing about you.

The game changes at this point completely.

You end up not even really needing to go out and meet women that much.  You’re so focused on your purpose and driven in your life that women can feel it.  They can feel you don’t NEED them.  They can feel you’re fulfilled without them.

This is also what we refer to as “BEING THE SHINY MAN”.

Almost every man I know goes through the phases that I was talking about above.

What phase are you currently in?  Where are you right now in your dating life with women?

Have you even started the DOING phase yet?

Have you been DOING for a while now and getting success?  Then it’s time to move to the next level of BEING.

Or, are you already BEING a naturally attractive man and women are constantly attracted to you easily and effortlessly?

It’s time to re-assess where you’re at and the important thing is to MAKE PROGRESS.

With Lifestyle Transformations, our core philosophy is on BEING.

We will give you some training wheels to get started in the DOING phase, but we don’t flood you with a bunch of silly lines or gimmicks.  Instead, we’ll help you focus on BEING a naturally attractive man so that women are naturally attracted to you.

That is the goal.

At every Dating Mastery Seminar, we cover our core philosophy and focus in-detail how you can become this naturally attractive man.

You aren’t as far away as you think you are.  You are closer than you think.

You just need to keep improving yourself and growing.  Evolve.

I encourage you to come on out to the next upcoming Dating Mastery Seminar.  It’s 90-minutes of powerful knowledge taught in a fun and entertaining way.  You will be engaged and actually put the tools and principles into ACTION.

You will notice that just by slowly improving yourself every day that women will become more and more attracted to you.

So, come on out.  It’s completely FREE if it’s the first time attending.

Otherwise, if you bring a guest who has never attended, then you also get to come for FREE!

To reserve your spot for an upcoming Dating Mastery Seminar, go to:

http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com/2010

Or, if you’re ready to immerse yourself in an environment of 3-days and make a total transformation, then come out to the Transformations Bootcamp.  You can find out more by going to:

http://www.TransformationsBootcamp.com

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